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S2E25: Becoming Brave Enough with Sasha Shillcutt, MD + Founder, Brave Enough

You are going to love Sasha Shillcutt, who has become a voice for women on burnout, resiliency and gender equality. Sasha is a cardiac anesthesiologist at the University of Nebraska Medical Center, and founded Brave Enough because, after a successful career climb as a clinical scientist and national expert, she found herself empty & isolated. She will inspire you to be #braveenough in your personal and professional life!

Find more information about Brave Enough at https://www.becomebraveenough.com

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